I don’t honestly know how John and his wife handled the death of their son. They are extraordinary people. I know myself well enough to know I wouldn’t handle such and incident nearly as well. I can’t imagine something like that happening to my family without lots of bodies afterward. I doubt I’d care much if those particular bodies where the particular one or not.
John on the other hand was able to turn this horrible event into something good, something that has helped others.
I cringe when I read about the abuse of children. I don’t understand it or want to.
I’ve said before some people in this world just need killing.